Prostate massager | All You Need To Know

Are you in for harder, stronger orgasms? Good, because we are here to provide you with a piece of information that will change the whole outcome of your sex life. And if you thought that vibrators are exclusive to ladies, then you couldn’t be more wrong. There are so many vibrating prostate toys on the market that can give you mind-blowing orgasms. In other words, it’s really hard to pick the best sex toy out there.

We’re here to give you an intro into prostate massagers, explain what prostate stimulation is, and how to safely play with your back door, and reach orgasms that will make your eyes roll back in pleasure. Sounds good? Let’s dive in!


Prostate Stimulation 101

Before we go any further, we first need to talk about human anatomy.

The prostate is a walnut-sized gland located 2 inches inside the rectum and underneath the bladder. It produces semen that assists sperm to travel from testicles through the penis during ejaculation.

Massaging the prostate does not only drain the fluids from its ducts but also creates that indescribable oh-so-good orgasm. This is because the prostate encloses a plethora of nerve endings that are as high in number as those in the clit. So essentially, the prostate is the male equivalent of the clitoris. Isn’t that amazing?

In order to discover this unforgettable bodily sensation, you might want to stimulate the P-spot with a finger or better yet a crème de la crème vibrating massager. Even though most of these stimulators come with a similarly curved round head, they differentiate in features.

They come in different sizes, shapes, vibration patterns, and even materials. If you’re feeling adventurous, you can try a remote vibe plug that’s controlled through an app. If you are just starting out with a prostate massager, you might want to look in the beginners’ section first and work your way from there. Safety first, right?

The Best Prostate Massagers

Prostate stimulation is becoming an increasingly popular topic nowadays, with a plethora of companies producing innovative prostate massagers to satisfy the needs of even the most ardent sex enthusiasts.

For instance, when Fun Factory released the Duke, fanatics were amazed by its double function, massaging not only the prostate but the perineum too. For those that don’t know – the perineum is located between the anus and scrotum and is an extremely erogenous zone. Now, imagine feeling five different vibrations stimulating all of your hotspots at once, sounds tempting doesn’t it?

Lelo is another industry-leading company that designed a heck out of a device for anal play – Hugo. Its perfect shape allows you or your partner to easily stimulate the prostate and with the double motor function, you get double the pleasure! Lelo made sure to create their toy from medical silicone that makes it not only body-safe but also very easy to maintain.

We-Vibe is another titan on the market, presenting you Vector, an authentic male vibrator for anal penetration. It’s smooth on your body due to its silky-smooth silicone finish while the design allows it to put quite intense pressure on your prostate. Since it’s 100% waterproof, this anal toy truly gives a different vibe from its competition, allowing you to take prostate play in the shower.

Tips for Better Use of Prostate Massagers

The first and foremost step towards a better prostate massage is creating a relaxing atmosphere. Turn off the lights, light some aromatic candles, and jazz it up with some music – after all, its your time to enjoy.

Once you have created the perfect atmosphere, make sure to find the perfect position that allows you to insert the stimulator effortlessly. If you are not alone, allow your partner to come from the back while you are facing the ground.

The next step is to apply enough lube while sliding your fingers inside for up to two inches. With a come-hither motion, bring a finger or two upwards towards the bulb of your penis. Even though your partner may be able to locate your hotspot, we advise you to be the first to massage it. Learn what works for you first and listen to your own body.

Prostate Massager Vs. Butt Plug

Using a personal prostate massager might be a bit overwhelming, especially if you are a beginner. This is why you will have to work your way up with other male anal toys before commencing your prostatic journey.

Butt plugs are a heck out of sex toys to help you massage the hotspots between your penis and anus. Not only do they allow you to try your hand in something new but their powerful vibrations can undoubtedly create Earth-shattering orgasms. What makes butt plugs a necessity before trying out more intense toys is the wider base that prevents them from entering too deep.

Are Prostate Stimulators Safe?

Prostate stimulation is indeed a safe activity, rendering a plethora of health benefits. In fact, doctors have been treating various conditions such as erection problems, urine flow, or even prostatitis with a prostatic massage.

What you should know though is that the path towards sexual pleasure shouldn’t be painful. So take it slow, learn your body’s limits, and work towards that orgasm – You deserve it!


  • Robert Thomas

    Robert Thomas is a sexologist, researcher, and writer who loves to explore and investigate everything that is related to bedroom action. He strives to improve couples' sex life by challenging the advice given in research papers, books, magazines, and on the internet in general. Robert loves to write about sex, BDSM, as well as tips & tricks on how couples can introduce new sex toys to their relationship. He has been proudly featured in Healthline, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Self, AskMen, MelMagazine, Kinkly, Jack&Jill Adult, and in many other publications. Learn more. LinkedIn