Homemade Prostate Massagers | Everything You Need To Know

A homemade prostate massager makes anal play even more fun and adventurous. Let’s face it, a standard massager can be expensive and may not live up to the expectations as our bodies respond in various ways to different sex toys.

The most intense sex toy for your partner could have little or no effect at all on you. That’s not unusual. Instead, it symbolizes the differences in our sexualities and there’s beauty in that.

Knowing that we are different, wouldn’t it make even more sense to design your own sex toys to fulfill your sexual fantasies?

That’s the freedom that comes with a homemade prostate massager!

You can make a homemade prostate massager using materials you interact with every day. A word of caution though; you can’t use just about anything that can penetrate your anus and is phallic-shaped. Instead, you need to be very selective, considering your safety or your partner’s.

This article takes you through all you need to know about DIY prostate massage and massagers.

Things To Consider When Making Homemade Prostate Massagers

When making these sex toys from home, you need to consider the following factors.


Your safety should come first before pleasure. The primary aim of making prostate massagers at home is to get the same fun you would get from your partner or a factory-made prostate massager.

A great way to ensure safety is by using protection when stimulating prostate glands. Do not use objects that have pointed or sharp edges as your internal muscles and tissues aren’t strong enough to accommodate such items as you get kinky.

Furthermore, you need to make sure the massager is easily retrievable, as it can easily get lodged and you could risk serious injuries. All anal toys should have a large base that will prevent the anus to suck them in.

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You don’t want to end up in the ER explaining how you got a courgette stuck in your bum, do you?


These massagers vary by type and some may leave tiny particles in your anus after the prostate massage session. For example, a candle could leave traces of wax inside you if not wrapped in a condom. Using a condom is one of the surest ways to prevent residue after the kinky session.


Whether you like your homemade prostate massagers rough or smooth, it’s a great idea to determine what suits you best before making a DIY prostate massager. For instance, cucumbers and some toothbrushes have rough textures and it might not give you the simulation that you want. When you know the kind of texture you desire, it becomes even easier to find the right item to use.

Important Safety Tips

Your safety is essential and you should always keep it in mind! The pleasure aside, anything that penetrates your body through the anus should be safe. It would help if you took the correct precautions to avoid injury when massaging your prostate so you can fully immerse yourself in the pleasurable experience.

No Pointed Objects

Do not insert any pointed object in your anus for stimulation. This part of the body comprises very soft tissues that can get hurt very easily. We only get one butt and it’s our responsibility to take care of it properly!

Protect Yourself

Avoid inserting objects into your anus without protection, especially those that leave particles when the job is done. Protection, such as condoms, help trap such particles and prevent them from getting in contact with your inner walls.

Insert Clean Objects Only

Only insert clean massagers in your anus. As a rule of thumb, clean the object first and make sure it dries completely. Wet objects could weaken condoms, consequently damaging them in the middle of anal play.

Clean Your Homemade Prostate Massager

After using this handcrafted sex toy, make sure your wash it thoroughly. Cleaning is essential, especially when you share one with multiple partners. Using a condom is a great way to prevent direct contact between the DIY massager and your body.

When Do You Need A Prostate Massager?

Homemade prostate massagers are readily available sex toys that you can make at any time. Here are examples of scenarios that may call for this adult toy.

When You’re Lonely

Relationship issues can get complicated sometimes. You would feel very lonely and miss the magical moments with your partner. When that happens, why not spoil yourself with a handcrafted massager?

If You Can’t Afford A New One

If you have a strict budget but still thinking of getting yourself a prostate massager to experience limitless G-spot pleasure, you may opt for the homemade versions. They are usually cheaper than the traditional ones. In most cases, you can easily find them just by exploring the items in your house, thus saving you a decent amount of money.

When You Need To Explore Your Butt

Suppose you are an amateur in this kind of massage. In that case, you may not be so familiar with a lot of things about prostate massage.

You may try out different kinds before buying a new massager. This way, you would be sure of the one that works best for you before you go and splurge your hard-earned dollars.

How To Make A Homemade Prostate Massager Using A Silicone Penis Mold

This is where the fun begins! The silicone mold lets you make a clone of a penis or any phallic object that you like. You can easily make a clone of your or your partner’s penis or even a phallic vegetable like a cucumber. It’s a fun project and will make for a great night of prostate stimulation and endless orgasms!

Materials Needed

  • Silicone penis mold kit
  • Tube
  • Marker pen
  • Pair of scissors
  • Boiled water
  • Timer
  • One large mixing bowl
  • A small cardboard
  • Vibrator
  • One clean disposable container


1. Cut the tube to size, hold the permanently sealed end against your body next to your penis and mark the tube where your penis ends. At this mark, completely cut off the excess tube with a pair of scissors.

2. Adjust the tap water to 99 degrees celsius and measure out one- and three-quarter cups.

3. Start your timer and pour the 99-degree water into your mixing bowl. Immediately cut open the bag of molding powder and empty the entire contents into the water. Stir this mixture for about 60 seconds, and then pour the whole mixture back into your molding tube. Do this quickly because the gel sets up within two minutes.

4. Insert your erect penis into the tube and push the two firmly against your body. If you’re touching the side, rotate the tube slightly to get the best placement after a couple of minutes. Check with your finger to make sure that mold has solidified, and then gently remove your penis. Let your mold dry for a couple of hours before moving on to the next step.

5. Open the liquid rubber and liquid skin package, and carefully pour each jar’s contents into a clean disposable container. Use the stir stick included with the kit to scrape out as much of each liquid as possible.

6. Stir this mixture thoroughly for at least two minutes. Then pour the mixture into the mold until it’s about an inch from the top.

7. For the final step, take the small cardboard and cut a small “X” in the center. Push the vibrator/dildo through the cardboard until only the screw cap sticks out one end.

8. Carefully insert the vibrator/dildo cardboard assembly into the center of your rubber-filled mold so that the cardboard rests flat against the rim of the tube.

9. Let the mixture sit for 24 hours to cure fully. Touch the rubber to make sure it is fully fixed, and then carefully remove your finished replica from the mold.

Your finished homemade prostate massager is permanent, amazingly lifelike, and easy to clean with soap and water. You may adjust the shapes of the mold to suit your preferences.

If you want to try the same with cucumber, you would need to only change the tube and the shape of the vegetable to get a desirable shape. Getting a curvy cucumber might be difficult, but you can use a peeler and knife to carve out your desired shape. Voila! Your personalized prostate massager is ready for play!

HandCrafted Massagers, You’ll Find Around The House


Candles come in different sizes that can be carved to match your preferred shape. But keep in mind that candle wax particles can be dangerous when they remain in your body. Wax can easily bend and melt when heated. If you opt for it, make sure you use protection and curve the candle edges for more pleasure.

Btw, candles can be also used to make an awesome homemade dildo.


Like candles, the texture and size of the toothbrush depend on your preference. If you like vibrating prostate massagers, an electric toothbrush could work well for you. Be careful when inserting smaller-sized toothbrushes as they can be hard to retrieve!

Courgettes Or Other Penis-Shaped Fruits

The shape of a courgette makes it a good fit for a homemade prostate massager. You only need to choose the right size and shape from your grocery store, wash it well and use protection to cover it.

You can put the courgette in the fridge for some cold sensations, or leave it at room temperature to match your body temperature faster. You may also use a cucumber or a well-shaped sweet potato. The possibilities are endless!

How Do You Clean A Homemade Prostate Massager?

It’s imperative to learn the correct cleaning procedures for a DIY prostate massager for excellent hygiene. To clean this adult sex toy, you need warm water, soap, and an antibacterial toy cleaner.

Soak the homemade prostate massager in warm soapy water and use a soft, clean sponge to scrub it thoroughly. In clean, warm water, rinse the sex toy to remove excess soap. Rinse the prostate massager in cold water and dry it using a clean towel.

Bottom Line

These are some of the most commonly used homemade prostate massagers. Hopefully, we helped you out in choosing the right one. As long as you put your safety first, the possibilities are limitless when it comes to designing these adult sex toys on your own. Remember to have fun, explore your sexuality, and get as many pleasurable orgasms as possible!

If you consider making your own prostate massager a little too messy, check out our Best Prostate Massagers article.


  • Robert Thomas

    Robert Thomas is a sexologist, researcher, and writer who loves to explore and investigate everything that is related to bedroom action. He strives to improve couples' sex life by challenging the advice given in research papers, books, magazines, and on the internet in general. Robert loves to write about sex, BDSM, as well as tips & tricks on how couples can introduce new sex toys to their relationship. He has been proudly featured in Healthline, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Self, AskMen, MelMagazine, Kinkly, Jack&Jill Adult, and in many other publications. Learn more. LinkedIn

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