How To Self Suck aka How To Give Yourself A Blowjob?

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You may think that the human body isn’t designed to pleasure itself, but you couldn’t be more wrong!

If you’ve ever wondered how tosuck your own dick, you’re not the first, and you certainly won’t be the last.

It can be surprising to know that you can bridge those few inches separating your mouth and your member with a few tips and techniques.

Coming up is a comprehensive breakdown on how to self suck, so strap in—not literally—and get those lips ready.

How to Suck Your Own Dick

Based on men who’ve managed to successfully perform fellatio on themselves, we’ve compiled a set of pointers that can teach first-time bravehearts how to suck your own dick. 

Body Type Matters

It’s no secret that having a big belly comes in the way when you try to touch your toes. Similarly, when you have to contort your body to suck your penis, it helps to not have a gut in the way.

Most men who’re able to reach their penis are on the leaner side of the scale when it comes to body types. They tend to weigh roughly around 120 to 140 pounds and aren’t very tall either—most tend to be under 6 feet. 

You may imagine that penis size is the deciding factor regarding self sucking, but that’s not the case either. From our research, most guys average 5.16 inches when erect.

So, since body type and shape are crucial, that’s another reason to get exercising and watch those calories, right?

Stretching is Key

Although you don’t need to be a gymnast or a yoga tutor to be able to suck your own dick, it definitely helps to limber up first.

When we say limbering, it doesn’t just come down to stretching on the day of the big feat but stretching as often as possible.

It’s simple: If you want to know how to suck your own dick, you need to be flexible in your mind and body.

We suggest spending at least a week working on your neck and torso muscles and loosening them as much as possible. Any activities that can help you increase your flexibility or even maintain it really helps. A warm bath is one great way to loosen those tense muscles.

Get Your Erection On

You can try your best to self suck without an erection, but the likelihood of you suck-ceeding are really low, unless you’re a member of the Cirque du Soleil! It’s best to try only after becoming fully erect, thereby giving yourself fewer inches to contort.

Using erection aids helps in this situation, too. We have a detailed discussion of this coming up, but using cock rings is a great way to sustain an erection as you self suck.

The Right Position

There are a couple of positions to achieve this feat.

It makes sense to try all these positions and test their effectiveness based on your body type.

Some positions will be easier on your body than the others. Based on which position you choose, work on the corresponding muscles, and make the regions flexible going forward. This will get you into the right position faster and faster as you go along.

Back and Heels

Most self suck experts note that lying on your back and lifting the heels in the air while bringing the cock towards your mouth is one of the easiest positions for the first time.

Doing this on the floor is far easier to suck than trying it on the bed, as beds have way too much give, and you need a hard surface to support yourself.

Back and Wall

Another position to suck your dick in involves lying on your back with your head against the wall, and then walking down the wall as you inch closer to your member. Use a pillow under your head for cushioning and that extra bit of lift.

Seated

Some just use the old-fashioned way of sitting and bending at the waist to get closer to the center of your universe.

Getting Help, Helps

If you have a partner who’s supportive of your juggernaut antics, having a helping hand can make a world of difference, especially when you’re first starting. 

Ask them to gently push down on your legs when you’re on your back to help you inch closer to the promised land.

If your partner isn’t weirded out, experiment with all the various positions. This should go a long way in helping you find the ideal position for when you solo self-suck.

Additional Tips

Apart from the above, consider the following pointers before you suck. 

Hydrate

Make sure to stay hydrated before you start to suck. Ample water in your system helps keep your muscle mass moistened, helping you avoid injuries and cramps.

Start Slow

Don’t push yourself too far, especially if you’re a self-sucking newbie.

Self sucking isn’t a sprint, it’s a marathon, and you need to prepare for it as such. When you feel pain, stop and start the next day afresh.

Your body will have a new landmark to chase every day as you inch closer and closer to your goal.

Don’t Suck on a Full Stomach

Sucking on a full tummy can add a lot more pressure and lead to more discomfort. 

Wait for at least an hour after a meal before you attempt to get down to your cock. If you can empty your bowels before you take on the challenge, great!

Master Multiple Positions

If you can master multiple positions instead of relying on just the one, it’s a lot easier on your body in the long run.

No matter how flexible you are, self sucking can be taxing on your body. Using multiple positions prevents any single body area from bearing the brunt of your adventurous spirit.

Tools to Help With the Trade

If you’re not having much success by contorting your body, you can always rely on tools to help you suck easier.

These products can enhance your member and help you achieve that goal.

Penis Extenders 

Penis extenders, also known as penis stretchers, are among the best non-invasive tools to enhance your penis length and help you suck.

You don’t need a doctor’s prescription for this tool, and you can simply purchase them online after landing on your favorite brand.

Using a penis extender helps you increase your penis’ size. Even an increment of an inch or two gets you that much closer to your penis while self-sucking, thereby making the whole activity easier.

Penis Pumps

Penis pumps are great for self-sucking since they extend your penis, reducing the distance between your mouth and your penis.

There are many high-quality penis pumps around, but the Bathmate brand stands “head” and shoulders above the competition.

Self Lovin’—The Greatest Lovin’

Self sucking may seem like an unnatural idea, but if it wasn’t a possibility, our bodies wouldn’t be able to do it.

We hope that this how to selfsuck guide gets you where you need to go in terms of techniques. The products listed in the article are sure to help you get there a lot quicker without any painful side-effects.

Author

  • Robert Thomas

    Robert Thomas is a sexologist, researcher, and writer who loves to explore and investigate everything that is related to bedroom action. He strives to improve couples' sex life by challenging the advice given in research papers, books, magazines, and on the internet in general. Robert loves to write about sex, BDSM, as well as tips & tricks on how couples can introduce new sex toys to their relationship. He has been proudly featured in Healthline, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Self, AskMen, MelMagazine, Kinkly, Jack&Jill Adult, and in many other publications. Learn more. LinkedIn

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