BDSM Little | Explained

Bondage and discipline, dominance, and submission, sadism, and masochism: are all kinks that have become prominent and frequently enjoyed. From the Eastern and Western civilizations, up to this day, it’s well known that both causing and experiencing pain can bring people arousal, pleasure, and enjoyment.

BDSM Little is a role-play scene where the submissive individual performs the role of a significantly immature character, in most cases the younger version of themselves.

Littles bring out their child-like behavior – mostly from their adolescent period. But it’s not all about the attitude: submissives often wear childish clothes, switch their voice, or entertain themselves with dolls. These characteristics can be a huge turn-on point for the dominant individual. 

The main responsibility of the dominant partner is to take care of the little. Every activity they engage in, or the ways they represent themselves are unprecedented and endless. If partners desire to enhance their relationship and try out something new, BDSM DDLG can definitely transform one’s sexual life into a more passionate and kinkier one. 

BDSM Little Role-Play Explained 

BDSM Littles firmly identify with a certain age and invade its features and personality, but never with sexuality or gender. Some submissives may feel extremely youthful, even going back to the period of being an infant, while others feel more like teenagers. Consequently, the activities and objects they are interested in may differ. In rare cases, this fantasy role-play can be inverted if both partners are sex chameleons. The Little can act as the dominant, and the Big can be the submissive.

The dominant individual plays the role of the Big, most commonly known as Mommy or Daddy. Being a Babyboy or a Babygirl provides a gentler, less jaded version of the world. When BDSM Littles are happy or excited, they often express their feelings with a giggle or dancing around. And the opposite, when they are sad, they often weep, stamp their feet, or yell. Whining happens… a lot. 

This age role-play is frequently connected with power trade and BDSM. The Littles are receiving punishments from the Daddy or Mommy for their immature wrongdoings, or breaking the rules, most commonly with impact play, over-the-knee spanking, bondage, flogging, humiliation, or paddling. Littles have many limitations, therefore it’s one exciting experience when they break their rules.

Society grapples with the broad notions of dominance and submission, but the increase in age play components sets off many alarm bells. Thus, it’s important to note that this role is played between two willingly involved adults, and shouldn’t be mistaken for anything else. Individuals use it as a “Little Space” to escape from all adult problems and responsibilities adult life brings along. 

In the BDSM Little role-play, the action can move from vanilla to the utmost hardcore. People just need to discuss their preferences and what they think this play-role should look like. It’s not a rule that this play has to conclude with the sex act. However, most of the time this role-play generates extra arousal that may lead to incredible intercourse. There are 50 shades of DDLG, so it’s pretty easy to create your own. 

People seek diversion and natural high. Combined pain and pleasure can be a breathtaking experience. It has the power to entirely remove your shyness, and provide you with an increased level of pleasure. 

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  • Robert Thomas is a sexologist, researcher, and writer who loves to explore and investigate everything that is related to bedroom action. He strives to improve couples' sex life by challenging the advice given in research papers, books, magazines, and on the internet in general. Robert loves to write about sex, BDSM, as well as tips & tricks on how couples can introduce new sex toys to their relationship. He has been proudly featured in Healthline, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Self, AskMen, MelMagazine, Kinkly, Jack&Jill Adult, and in many other publications. Learn more. LinkedIn

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