BDSM Sissy Training | Explained

Sissy training is a subset of feminization which is a practice that involves switching gender roles. In the BDSM culture, sissy training means that the submissive male, aka sissy, is trained to be a female. The Dom, on the other hand, can be a female or male. The end goal of sissy training is to turn the male into a female – let the male break free from his masculine duties and transform into the world of femininity by taking on feminine behaviors.

Sissy training is very popular among heterosexual cis males as it offers a way to escape the “traditional” perception of males in our society. This is also a reason why sissy training – unlike other forms of BDSM – is still kept only in the house and under the bedsheets.

Sissy training activities can be sexual, like pegging or performing oral sex, but they can also involve non-sexual actions like putting on makeup, cleaning the house, etc. 

Sissy’s training has many forms, like “maid” or “slut” training.

Sissy maid training is where the sissy is trained to be a maid. This can include doing housework, serving at big parties, etc. – all done while wearing a maid’s uniform. The activities here can vary depending on whether the sissy training is publicly known to others or not.

Another version can be the sissy slut training where the sissy has to wear slutty clothes and take part in various slutty activities. The aim is to make the sissy a real slut for the dominant partner.

Whatever the sissy training scenario the Sub (sissy) is required to act submissive and obey Dom’s orders. The dominant partner is usually allowed to punish the Sub for not doing what they were asked by spanking, bondage, etc. Sissies can also be rewarded if they’ve followed Dom’s orders. This can be in the form of a rocking orgasm or in the way the dominant partner seems fit.

What Is The Difference Between Being A Sissy And Transgender?

Many people mistake these two for the same, but there is one crucial difference: the kind of choice. A transgender person has chosen to fully become a woman or man in every sense of the word. In sissy training, the sissy desires to only act as a female, while in reality, he is a male, and he performs every daily duty as a male.

Some people compare sissy training with being a total sub. Although sissy training encompasses being submissive to your Dom, there is a huge disparity. Namely, it’s all about feminization. The sissy is all in for transforming and taking every part of the female role – they are fully committed to being cum dumpsters for their partners. In contrast, the total Sub stays in their gender.

Sissy training is a long process and can’t be done overnight. Many couples go through various scenarios to find their favorite sissy training versions. Some start with cuddling and house chores as a way to ease in the process. Nonetheless, sissy training is something that both partners need to be in for and enjoy it. Like everything else, communication is key!

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  • Robert Thomas is a sexologist, researcher, and writer who loves to explore and investigate everything that is related to bedroom action. He strives to improve couples' sex life by challenging the advice given in research papers, books, magazines, and on the internet in general. Robert loves to write about sex, BDSM, as well as tips & tricks on how couples can introduce new sex toys to their relationship. He has been proudly featured in Healthline, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Self, AskMen, MelMagazine, Kinkly, Jack&Jill Adult, and in many other publications. Learn more. LinkedIn

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