What Does Daddy BDSM mean?

In BDSM English, Daddy stands for a dominant male in the role of a father, while his partner is his baby girl or the Little. 

The role of Daddy is to be strict and authoritative in order to discipline his baby girl and prevent her from becoming naughty. Daddies and little girls have a set of strict rules that must be mutually respected; otherwise – Daddy must punish his bad girl.

This type of role-playing is among the most common fantasies of dominant and submissive partners in BDSM, but these roles have specific scenarios that both partners must follow. So, let’s see what Daddies do.

The Daddy Role

Daddies play the dominant role in this BDSM scenario. They have the authority and set certain rules for their little ones, and they must respect and obey their commands. If the baby girl breaks the rules, Daddy must take matters into his hands and spank her.

However, Daddies can be overly protective of their baby girls and do everything to make them happy. Daddies buy them clothes to look and feel satisfied; they buy them food and take them to the movies and cultural events. If Daddy gives a command to his baby girl to stick around him, she must do so.

Also, the Daddy role comes with a script. They call their Little girls Princess, Baby Girl, but they can use other nicknames such as Slut. However, it’s Daddy’s slut. In most BDSM contracts, these names are prerogatives of the Dominant figure, and they must call them such.

For what’s even worth, Daddies don’t want to hurt their little ones. They want to protect and nurture their baby girl, but if she breaks one of the fundamental rules, Daddy must show authority.

Now, Daddy’s don’t choose the type of punishment they will use on their little one, but they are already pre-determined based on the kind of rule they break.

The punishments can be of different nature. Sometimes Daddy will spank the Little girl; sometimes he whips; other times, he might deprive her of a spectacular finish. Daddy has the right to bond his naughty girl and then spank or whip her. Also, he might intensify the force (of course, if it’s for greater satisfaction).

But, can a baby girl get away with breaking the rule? We’ll only find out in the upcoming part regarding the role of a baby girl.

The Baby Girl Role

Essentially, Baby Girls must obey what their Daddies tell them to do because they agree to be submissive.

Yes, Daddy – is all it takes to avoid getting a punishment and all you can say when he gives a task. However, baby girls can still be playful and tease their Daddies. 

However, when Daddy is in a bad mood, baby girls mustn’t be brats or be disobedient because they will have to be punished for what they did.

In case baby girls mess something up, they put on an adorable dress and bat their eyes to their Daddy while promising them they won’t make the same mistake ever again. Even though Daddy is the dominant figure in this BDSM play, sometimes he might purposely overlook their baby girl’s mistakes. 

However, if baby girls screw up something big, they will not bat away their punishment. 

BDSM Contracts

Daddy and the little girl roles aren’t related to anything similar to incest or child pornography. It’s an arrangement between two people, like the one of Christian Grey and Ana Steele, signed up, remember? 

It’s an arrangement between a dominant and a submissive partner. The dominant partner is the one that tells the game, and the submissive must follow what the dominant says. The dominant might free the submissive partner of the rules they find uncomfortable or awkward, and they can settle on doing the activities they both find comfortable. This means that Daddies want a reliable grown-up partner with whom they will be able to perform sexual activities that involve an ounce of pain, bondage, or whipping.

These contracts usually come as referrals. In most cases, Daddy is an experienced BDSM member, and then he invites his partner to become his baby girl. The vice-versa in this BDSM role is uncommon, but not impossible. There can be Mommy and baby boys just as there are Daddies and Baby girls.

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  • Robert Thomas

    Robert Thomas is a sexologist, researcher, and writer who loves to explore and investigate everything that is related to bedroom action. He strives to improve couples' sex life by challenging the advice given in research papers, books, magazines, and on the internet in general. Robert loves to write about sex, BDSM, as well as tips & tricks on how couples can introduce new sex toys to their relationship. He has been proudly featured in Healthline, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Self, AskMen, MelMagazine, Kinkly, Jack&Jill Adult, and in many other publications. Learn more. LinkedIn

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