Quick links: Definition | Materials To Use | The Goal | Word of Caution | Why Try | My Experience | Pros & Cons | FAQs
Hi everyone! I’m super excited to be here today talking more about bondage which is one of my favorite activities related to BDSM.
Let’s take some time to get into the subject of breast bondage and all the fun that can add to your playtime.
Key Takeaways
- Breast bondage is about increasing sensitivity through changing the blood circulation to the breasts.
- You can select from a wide variety of materials and even get premade harnesses for breast bondage.
- Many people engage in breast bondage as a playful way to continue the scene in their everyday life.
What is Breast Bondage?
This is not one of those over-complicated terms that sound different than what it is. Breast bondage is the binding of breasts. We see this most often with rope but other materials and even commercially made harnesses can be used.
Breast bondage is not about the restriction of movement like we generally think of when we hear the word bondage. It is about enhancement. When we use breast bondage, what we are really doing is increasing sensitivity.
“Bondage enthusiasts apparently love to explore novel, different, and even creative means of restraint. The most common forms involve tying the masochist up with ropes, scarves, stockings or pantyhose, neckties, handcuffs, and occasionally chains.”
by Roy F. Baumeister; Taylor & Francis, 2014
from Masochism and the Self
An interesting little tidbit here is the practice is also known as shinju which is the Japanese word for pearl. If you think about it, the term makes sense because of the way a bound breast would look.
There is a lot of difference between breast bondage and chest binding. Chest binding is about flattening the breast. It can be done for a variety of reasons many of which are not related to BDSM scenes.
A Material Attraction In Breast Bondage
Breast bondage allows the use of a variety of materials. Obviously, the most common is rope but really there are a lot of options.
Other excellent choices can include scarves, twine, or ribbon. You can also experiment with some less traditional materials like wire and even plastic wrap.
Leather bonds can also be used whether you go with a premade item, something that straps, or a thinner strip method that could be used in a rope-like manner.
An aspect of the appeal of breast bondage is visual appeal. Your finished result is determined by the material you use as well as the types of ties. The material will also affect the length of time the bondage can be worn, so take that into account when you decide what to use.
What is the Goal
Breast bondage is about lifting and separating the breasts. You can think of this as more or less creating a bra from your binding material. The goal is almost always to leave the areola and nipple exposed for further play.
The main idea is to increase sensitivity. This increase in sensitivity is a lot of fun to play with whether you want a sensual or painful sensation. You can get the breast to respond to differences in temperature and pressure creating stimulation on a level not achievable on an unbound breast.
Depending on your method and skill level, you can bind the breasts together or separately. Each creates a unique look and sensitivity.
A Word of Caution
I want to remind you that while different people have different desires for the finished look, safety must still be considered. The tighter the bondage, the less time it can safely be left in place.
I know Doms and subs who like the bonds to be tight enough to cause decreased blood circulation to the point of color change and others who prefer to go with just enough to lift and separate.
There is no right or wrong tightness if you don’t cause damage. Anything that restricts blood flow into the area enough to cause color change must be done with great care to prevent severe or permanent injury.
One safety tip I want to share is that keeping a pair of medical shears handy when you practice any bondage is always a good idea.
These are not your standard scissors and can cut through pretty much anything. In an emergency, they make short work of releasing the bondage material allowing for the quick return of regular circulation to the area.
Why Practice Breast Bondage
There are several reasons you might choose to practice breast bondage.
- First, you cannot deny the visual appeal it can create.
- Second, the increase in sensitivity can be very intense.
My favorite reason is the naughty secret aspect. Breast bondage is something that can be worn beneath clothing while out in public. Both you and your partner know it’s there, but no one else has a clue that there are ties under your regular wardrobe.
Personal Experiences With Breast Bondage
I’ve already shared that I don’t have a lot of experience with rigging from either side, but that does not mean I don’t have a fair amount of experience with breast bondage.
I have tried several materials over my years in the lifestyle. Each has its own bite and smell and becomes its own unique experience.
My favorite material is leather. For me, there is something about the feel of leather on the skin that just keeps my fire stoked. This is especially nice since premade leather pieces are readily available from a variety of sources.
Advantages of Breast Bondage
- Increases sensitivity
- Premade equipment is available
- Can be hidden under everyday clothing
Disadvantages of Breast Bondage
- Must be done with caution
- May have time limitations on wear
- Takes time to put into action
What’s Next
You don’t have to be a Rigger or a bunny to get started with breast bondage.
I recommend starting with something premade because it is the easiest and safest way to begin your exploration. There are plenty of sellers on both Amazon and Etsy that offer some fairly inexpensive but still highly effective harnesses so you can give it a try without a large investment of time or money.
And, as always, with all BDSM activities, make sure you trust your partner and have a safeword!
Breast Bondage FAQs
How long can someone wear breast bondage?
This is a question with a complex answer because it requires assessing many factors. These factors include the individual tolerance of the bunny and what materials are used, among others. I know people who wear breast bondage daily as they go through their everyday routines. I also know people who bind in short increments and enjoy that just as much.
Are there materials that can’t be used for breast bondage?
I’ll say here that size matters. I don’t want to seem like a size queen, but it’s less about the material and more about the size. You don’t want to use anything too thin because it increases the chance of injury.
Can breast bondage be combined with other sorts of breast play?
Absolutely! Since the primary goal of breast bondage is to increase sensitivity, it pairs nicely with an assortment of other types of breast play, including clamps, Impact Play, and Temperature Play.
