BDSM Interrogation Scene, Explained | Confession Climax

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An interrogation scene is a form of BDSM roleplay that mimics any kind of scene where a figure with all the power in the situation is trying to get information out of a helpless captive.

The dominant plays the interrogator, while the submissive struggles to hold onto a secret that will end the scene once it is admitted.

The pair (or group) can play a variety of scenes, including

  • Cop interrogating a criminal,
  • Torturer working over a prisoner of war,
  • Villain trying to get a superspy to give up their secrets, or a
  • Mob boss tormenting a suspected rat.

In every case, the interrogation scene gets more and more intense as time goes on and the submissive struggles to keep their secret.

The toys and methods used vary, but often the submissive is at least partially restrained. Selective use of sensory deprivation, an appropriately intimidating scene, and constantly rising tension and stakes are common aspects of interrogation roleplay.

Key Takeaways

  • An interrogation scene is a type of BDSM roleplay where the dominant acts as the interrogator, while the submissive struggles to keep a secret the dominant wants as the dominant continually ups the “stakes” and the intensity of the scene.
  • The scene can take a variety of forms, including cop versus criminal, mob boss versus informant, villain or femme fatale versus spy, military interrogator versus prisoner of war, and many others.
  • The scene usually involves at least light bondage, may involve costumes or a special setting, and can involve a huge variety of toys and methods of “torture” depending on what the partners like and what’s appropriate for the roles they are playing.
  • The scene ends when the submissive gives up their secret. This ultimately gives them control over how long and how far the “torture” goes, be it pain play, tickling, orgasm denial, or other methods.

The Dominant as The Interrogator

The role that the dominant plays in this situation is that of the interrogator, and specifically whatever type of interrogator fits the scene that they and their submissive have decided to play out.

The brutal interrogation of a suspected informant by a mobster, or a prisoner of war by an enemy torturer, is going to be a lot more hardcore than, say, a Mata Hari-style domme teasing her tied victim until he’d give up state secrets for a climax.

The line of questioning used by the interrogator to get at the truth can take a lot of forms.

In the classic case, the questions start out neutral and impersonal, became more personal, and then become humiliating, taboo, and/or explicitly sexual, as time goes on.

Ultimately, it is a specific confession or secret that the interrogator is after, whether made up for the scene or real.

Techniques for the interrogation itself can include everything from orgasm denial to tickling to various forms of electricity and knife play.

Beatings, by hand or with toys, humiliation, intimidation, mind games…whatever aspects in your and your partner’s BDSM toolbox fit best for the scene you want are on the table.

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The dominant’s job is to start and direct the scene, ramping up the tension as well as the stimulation while ensuring the submissive’s safety at all times.

“The BDSM community actively promotes safety and emphasizes the consensual nature of BDSM activity.”

by Marshall Cavendish Corporation; Cavendish Square, 2010
from Sex and Society

The Submissive’s Secret

The submissive plays the role of the person being interrogated. Their whole job is to hold out as long as they can as the interrogator tries to get a specific piece of information out of them.

This information can be anything from a secret desire, to an embarrassing situation they were in, to a made-up crime.

Once you have played for a while, the interrogator might spice up the scene with something more obscure, like making the submissive give up a secret without specifying what they’re asking about (“what are you hiding?”). 

Giving up the secret acts as a scene-ending “safe phrase”, ensuring that the moment it is spoken, the scene will wrap up instead of continuing to intensify.

As long as the submissive knows the secret and the dominant doesn’t, the scene will continue, with the “torture” intensifying until the submissive reach their limit.

At that point, any torments end, and the interrogator may reward their captive for their cooperation with an orgasm. Or, they might cap the scene off with something a lot darker.

Variations on the BDSM Interrogation Theme

When planning an interrogation scene with your partner, feel free to get creative. Popular media has tons of examples of interrogation scenes that you could model your own scenes after. Below are a few ideas.

The Classic Interrogation Scene

The classic interrogation scene usually involves full restraint to a chair, lights in the eyes, a threatening laying out of “torture implements” and harsh treatment from the interrogator.

It is the commonest form of interrogation roleplay. It mimics what you might see in a spy or crime thriller, and while the victim is usually naked beside the restraints and at times a blindfold, the dominant wears an appropriate costume.

The Spy Thriller Interrogation Scene

The spy thriller interrogation scene can be as brutal as the classic scene, but there’s usually an emphasis on two things:

  • High-tech, and
  • Seduction with an edge of threat.

Electroplay works well with this, as does knifeplay.

Restraint to a table or bed, or possibly a rack, fits the theme better than a simple armless chair. Bright lights, polished surfaces, and snazzy costumes (such as the remnants of a tuxedo in the spy’s case) give this variation some theatrical flair.

The Dirty Cop Interrogation Scene

The dirty cop interrogation scene can take a whole lot of forms but usually varies on the classic scene in that the “perp” is cuffed to a chair and starts out clothed. The interrogator wants some kind of confession in this case and will do all kinds of nasty things to the helpless perp while the security cameras are down for maintenance.

There are a lot of ways to get creative with an interrogation scene. However, one thing that should never be forgotten is to maintain basic safety precautions. These include keeping safety items like a spare handcuff key, bandage scissors, and a first aid kit within reach.

Personal Experience With BDSM Interrogation Scenes

Most of my interrogation-scene play has actually taken place at commercial BDSM dungeons and play parties. I’ve found myself strapped to a table a few times, once as a James Bond type being tormented into talking by an expert at orgasm denial in a slinky gold dress.

I’ve also been cuffed and dragged into an “interrogation room” where two dominants played good-cop-bad-cop to get my confession. The good cop caressed and teased, while the bad cop cuffed and beat me, both trying to see who could get me to talk first.

I have played the interrogator at a few play parties, including turning the tables on the “bad cop” in a military interrogation scene. Besides restraints and a variety of sensory toys, I like using blindfolds or hoods as part of the scene. I find that sensory deprivation intensifies both other sensations and the sub’s sense of helplessness.

It’s also fun making the “victim” never quite know what I will do to them next if they refuse to talk.

Interrogation play can get very intense, in my experience, but it can also be very satisfying.

BDSM Interrogation Scene FAQs

What kind of secrets should submissives choose to hide?

A good secret should be something that the submissive is at least a little reluctant to admit. It could be something embarrassing, it could be something naughty that the submissive did against their Master’s orders, or it could have a connection to their relationship, such as a secret desire to try topping.

It shouldn’t be anything particularly shattering to admit or hear, but it should be something the sub isn’t eager to admit either.

How much physical play is involved in BDSM interrogation?

That depends on the partners’ personal preferences and the nature of the scene they are roleplaying.

For example, all scenes escalate over time, but a simulated police interrogation will take a while to get to any physical torments, while a military interrogation will take less buildup to get to that point, and a mob interrogation may start with beatings, electrosex, etc. fairly quickly.

Do all interrogations involve pain?

Not all. Some particularly talented dominants can extract information through intimidation and other psychological means alone. Others tickle, while others will keep a restrained submissive on the point of orgasm until they cave in and talk.

What’s Next?

Give your sub a treat they’ll never forget by using an interrogation scene to ramp up the intensity until they sing like a bird.

Push the limits of their endurance, whether with pain, denied pleasure, or other sensations until their stubbornly-held secret is yours. Or be the sub, and spend the scene struggling to keep from spilling what they want as they push your limits in turn.

Notes

This article was initially published in June 2022 by Sexologist Robert Thomas. In October 2022, Oliver K rewrote the article to improve its truthfulness, depth, and accuracy.

Authors

  • Robert Thomas

    Robert Thomas is a sexologist, researcher, and writer who loves to explore and investigate everything that is related to bedroom action. He strives to improve couples' sex life by challenging the advice given in research papers, books, magazines, and on the internet in general. Robert loves to write about sex, BDSM, as well as tips & tricks on how couples can introduce new sex toys to their relationship. He has been proudly featured in Healthline, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Self, AskMen, MelMagazine, Kinkly, Jack&Jill Adult, and in many other publications. Learn more. LinkedIn

  • Oliver K

    Mastubators, sex dolls, fleshlights, onaholes, blowjob machines, etc.. epic sex toys to put your dick in. NO DOUBT ABOUT IT. Hi/hello, I am Oliver and you can think of me as an experienced sex toy tester. Why? Been part of Sextopedia’s team for 2 years now – tested over 100 dick stimulators, so I know what I am talking about. I am not a conservative thinker and I am not afraid to speak my mind. My reviews will always be right to the point and voice my personal experience. To spice up my sex life, I also joined the BDSM community back in 2019.

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