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Let’s talk about the art of squirting with a dildo. Or is it science? We’ll find that out shortly. 

Before I even begin, bear in mind that anyone can squirt with the right stimulation and technique. So don’t rule yourself out if you’ve never squirted in your life. You just need to know how it’s done. 

Let’s dive into the details. 

This article is co-written by Sexologist Robert Thomas.

Key Takeaways

  • All vulva owners can squirt – it all depends on the technique and level of sexual excitement.
  • Curved dildos (made from a firm or medium-firm body-safe material) can significantly increase your chances of squirting as they have better access to the G-spot that needs to be stimulated to achieve female ejaculation.
  • Best sex positions for squirting: cowgirl, pillow hack, and doggy-style. 
  • Consider using a squirting dildo to mimic female ejaculation.
  • Safe liquids to use in a squirting dildo: water, water-based lubricants, flavored lubricants, cum lubes.

Is It Possible to Squirt With a Dildo?

Yes, it is possible to squirt with a dildo. All you need is the right technique and stimulation.

One thing you need to bear in mind is that every woman has a different body. And when it comes to sex and pleasure, we all have our own preferences regarding the things that turn us on.

For example, I love it when my partner kisses my neck passionately for 10 to 15 minutes before penetration. That gets me not just wet but dripping wet!

On the other hand, some women don’t like neck kisses — they find them ticklish. In fact, some break into loud laughter, which in turn ruins the mood. And, there’s nothing wrong with that. 

All I’m trying to say is we’re all different. 

So when using a dildo, the secret is finding out what turns your own. Once you’ve figured that out, the rest will be much easier. 

Which Dildo to Use For Squirting?

As I mentioned earlier, your chances of squirting will depend on your preferences, technique, and level of stimulation. Although using a dildo doesn’t guarantee you’ll squirt, the chances of squirting are significantly higher.

The type of dildo to use will depend on what turns you on.

For example, I’m into fantasy dildos, precisely the Alien Breeder from Mr. Hankey’s Toys.

The Alien Breeder Dildo

I just love its coarse texture and extraterrestrial feel. The phallus feels different as it navigates my inner walls and is long enough to hit my G-Spot, turning my vagina into a waterfall. 

That said, you might fall in love with something different. Unfortunately, there’s no specific formula for squirting, especially with a dildo.

For example, let’s say you love to play with your clit while getting fucked. 

In that case, a clit sucking dildo-vibrator like the Duo from Womanizer would be a great option. This sex toy stimulates both worlds — your clitoris and vagina for the ultimate pleasure. 

In addition, if you love your anus and vagina stimulated simultaneously (I do), consider using a double-ended phallus.  I personally love the BASICS Mini Double Penetration Dildo from Lovehoney. I discussed it briefly in this article

Should I Use a Firm Dildo And Why?

The last thing you want is to constantly adjust your dildo because it just won’t stay inside you for a full minute. That’s what happens when you choose a phallus that’s too soft. 

One of the reasons people invest in dildos is because THEY JUST CAN’T suddenly turn flaccid after ejaculation like an actual penis.

If you want something that hits all the right spots and won’t last a few seconds before running out of energy, a medium-firm dildo works best.

Other than staying erect throughout the session, I found that medium-firm dildos like the Dragon Dildo, Alien Breeder (my favorite), or Tentacle Hentai hit all the right spots, including my G-spot.

Should I Use a Curved Dildo and Why?

Curved dildos are among the most popular types of dildos out there. To put things into perspective, a Sextopedia survey conducted between October 2021 and July 2022 involving 2468 participants revealed that at least 16% of them owned curved dildos. 

I actually own several curved (body-safe) dildos and I know first-hand how well these can reach MY G-spot. So yes, a curved dildo is perfect for squirting and here’s why:

Because these dildos are curved, they have better access to the G-spot than straight-ish dildos. G-spot or Gräfenberg spot is a part of the clitoral network and is located 2 inches-ish inside the vagina.

“The G-spot is similar in size and shape to a lima bean, located directly behind the pubic bone inside the front wall of the vagina, about two inches on the front wall in from the vagina’s entrance.”

by Dr. Haha Lung, Christopher B. Prowant; Citadel Press, 2012
from Mental Dominance: The Art of Ninja Mind Power

Therefore, a curved dildo has a better chance of navigating your inner walls to find this pleasure spot, or area/zone to be more precise. 

Squirting, Explained

Female ejaculation or squirting is a complex process that happens during G-spot stimulation. If it were that easy, every woman would be a natural squirter. The good thing is that once you figure it out, there’s no turning back. 

“Squirting is essentially the involuntary or voluntary emission of urine during sexual activity, and the emitted fluid contains a marginal amount of prostatic secretions.”

by Kerri Durnell Schuiling, Frances E. Likis; Jones & Bartlett Learning, 2020
from Gynecologic Health Care: With an Introduction to Prenatal and to Prenatal and Postpartum Care: With an Introduction to Prenatal and Postpartum Care

This article by our sex expert Robert Thomas discusses everything you need to know about making a girl squirt. 

My Experience: Guide to Squirt With a Dildo

Now that you’ve learned how to make a girl squirt (assuming you’ve read the article I shared above), it’s time to learn how to squirt with a dildo. 

Best Dildo Squirting Positions

Let’s discuss a few positions that make me squirt. I hope they’ll work for you as well.

1. The Pillow Hack

This position has been trending on Tiktok since the late 2020s. But I’ve known it longer than that, and I can’t remember the last time I didn’t squirt while in this position. So here’s how it works: 

  • Lay on a soft, flat surface, preferably a bed
  • Place a pillow under your waist 
  • Get lubed, and then insert the dildo slowly and gently
  • Move the dildo in and out of your vagina slowly and then increase the speed as your muscles relax
  • If you’re using a straight dildo, insert it at a 45-degree angle to target your G-spot located somewhere around the roof of your vagina
  • Once you hit the spot (you’ll know it when you do), keep hitting it slowly and then increase the tempo as you please

2. The Cowgirl

The best thing about this position is that if done right, it makes it easier for the dildo to hit the right spots. This is because you’ll be using your own body weight against the toy, making the penetration even more intense.

Here’s all you need to do:

  • Place a suction cup dildo on a clean, flat surface
  • Squat over the dildo and get lubed up
  • Slowly insert the dildo into the vagina and begin bouncing up and down
  • Go deeper until you reach the G-spot
  • Feel free to adjust yourself until when the dildo hits the rights spot
  • Once you find the G-spot, keep riding until you arrive at Orgasmville

You can also recreate this position with a sex stool or dildo mount. 

3. The Doggystyle

This position works almost the same as The Cowgirl. The only difference is that you’ll need to attach the dildo to a wall or a dildo mount. 

Here are the steps to follow:

  • Attach the dildo to a wall or mount
  • Get lubed and then bend over facing the opposite direction (away from the dildo)
  • Slowly insert the dildo and begin rocking back and forth
  • Feel free to adjust yourself until when it hits the right spot/area/zone
  • For best results, use a curved dildo

If you choose a curved dildo, ensure the curved section is facing downwards, not upwards. This is because when you insert the adult toy from behind, your G-spot will be around the floor of your vagina.

Note that this doesn’t mean that your G-spot has shifted — it simply means that you’re taking the dong from a different direction (your stomach facing down). 

How Much Pressure Do I Need to Put on the G Spot?

From my own experience, I’d say gentle pressure is the best. Most people believe that the G-spot is located deep inside the vagina, but that’s not true. In fact, studies have shown that this golden stimulation zone is no further than three inches inside your vagina

If you hit this spot too hard, you’ll likely experience a lot of pelvic pain, which makes the whole experience less enjoyable. 

For best results, start slow and steady, moving in and out of the vagina. Next, navigate to the upper wall of the vagina to locate the spot. Once you’ve found it, hit it gently and then increase the tempo as needed. 

Later on, you may want to hit it harder, but only after you’re fully aroused and wet. 

How Can Your Partner Help?

Don’t let your partner just sit there and watch you navigate the swampy waters — you’ll need to put them to work too!

There are so many ways your partner can help you squirt with a dildo. But, again, it all depends on what turns you on.

For instance, I love my neck kissed passionately, and clit rubbed. For this reason, I always have my partner on top of me as I use the phallus to navigate my walls.

Sometimes, I have him lay next to me and then place a vibrator on my clitoris.

There are many different vibrators out there, but for this purpose, I prefer the Dame Eva II Hands-Free Rechargeable Clitoral Vibrator from Lovehoney. This sex toy comes with three different speeds for ultimate pleasure. Besides, I love that it’s small, perfect for using alongside a dildo. 

If you choose the doggy style, you can have your partner stand in front of you. Then, suck his dick as you ride the dildo. If your partner is female, you can have them lay on a flat surface in front of you, spread their legs, and then eat their clit as you ride the dildo.

Alternatively, have your partner eat your clit as you fuck yourself with the dildo. For this to work, your partner’s face should be positioned across your waist, not directly on your pussy. This is because you want to ensure you don’t hit their chin with your arm as you rock the dildo in and out inside you

Read More | 5 Ways To Eat Pussy

If done right, you’ll need a boat to get out of bed after all that squirting. 

Cleaning It Up

There are many different different ways to clean up after squirting. Here’s what works for me all the time. 

1. Towels

Dip a clean cotton towel in warm water, detergent, baking soda, and hydrogen peroxide. Ensure you read the manufacturer’s instructions to find out the right amount of chemical ingredients to use.

Then, gently rub the towel on the stain in a circular motion.

Dip another clean towel into warm water and use it to rinse the stain. Keep rinsing until the stain is completely gone. 

2. Squirting Blankets

Once you’ve officially joined the squirt club, you may need to invest in a squirting blanket, which is much easier to clean.

Squirting blankets can hold over a liter of liquid without leaking!

When done squirting, simply throw it into the washing machine. Set the machine to cold, and that’s it. After washing, you can either air dry it or place it in the dryer. 

What About Squirting Dildos?

The squirting dildo is a dildo that squirts fake semen into your vagina (or anus) as you masturbate. 

Doc Johnson Bust It Ejaculating Dildo from Lovehoney is one of my favorites under this category. I love its girthy shaft, bulbous balls, and realistic feel. This trio, coupled with the artificial semen, is all I need to drown in squirt.

If you need help choosing the right squirting dildo, our sexologist Robert Thomas explains everything you need to know in this article

How Do Squirting Dildos Work?

Squirting dildos work in two different ways — some have an external pump that sends water into the dildo when it’s ready to ‘ejaculate’, while others have a built-in container that holds the water. 

Those with a built-in liquid storage compartment also have a button you can press to release the liquid into your vagina (or anus). 

Remember the water guns you used to play with while you were still young and innocent? That’s the exact logic used to build a squirting dildo. With a simple press of a button, you’ll have your inner walls soaked to the brim. 

What Do You Put in a Squirting Dildo?

Now here comes the most important part – there are certain things you can and cannot put in a squirting dildo. 

Let’s begin with safe liquids to use in a squirting dildo.

  • Water-based lubricants: These lubricants are designed to be gentle to your body by mimicking natural body fluids, such as saliva, mucus, and vaginal discharge.
  • Flavored lubricants: As the name suggests, these lubricants add a little bit of flavor to your experience. You can use different flavors, such as caramel, raspberry, strawberry, and even chocolate!
  • Cum lubes: My personal favorite is the Climax cum lube. This lube mimics actual semen and is 100% safe to use. I also love the fact that it is very smooth, slippery, easy to clean, and stays for long without drying. 

Now let’s talk about unsafe liquids to put in a squirting dildo:

Don’t put anything that’s not specifically designed for a squirting dildo.

Basically, I’m talking about ANY liquid we haven’t mentioned in the list of safe liquids to use (unless it’s water). 

Are There Remote-Control Squirting Dildos?

Yes, remote-controlled squirting dildos are all over the market. For example, this bad boy from ACMEJOY does it all — he vibrates, fucks, and squirts simultaneously! 

Squirting With Dildos FAQs

I Am 50, Can I Still Squirt?

Yes, you can still squirt — and enjoy great sex — even when you’re older than 50.

How Hydrated Do I Need to Be to Squirt?

Hydration increases your chances of squirting. This is because squirting drains water from your body. For best results, experts recommend taking two liters of water daily, which translates to half a gallon.

How Many Times I Can Squirt in One Go?

There is no set-in-stone number of how many times you can squirt in one go. You can squirt as little or as many times as possible. It all depends on your level of sexual excitement and technique. 

How Many Times Do I Need to Orgasm Before I Can Squirt?

You don’t need to orgasm before squirting. In fact, you can squirt before achieving an orgasm. 

Do Lesbians Squirt More?

Not necessarily. Squirting has nothing to do with your sexual orientation. Whether you’re a lesbian or heterosexual, it all depends on the technique you use to squirt and how horny you are. 

Is a Vibrator Better Than a Dildo for Squirting?

Again, it depends on your preferences. For example, personally, I love using a vibrator and dildo at the same time. However, some women only use a vibrator, while some only squirt with a dildo. 

What Other Sex Toys Can I Include to Stimulate Squirting Orgasm?

To improve your chances of squirting, consider adding clit vibrators to your sex toy collection. You may also include anal vibrators and torso dildos. 

Authors

  • I love all “things” that can be played with, especially sex toys that are curvey and realistic at the same time. Jokes aside, I have great instincts when it comes to picking out a new dildo or vibrator or any other sex toy that can actually make you orgasm. Sextopedia has been my sweet-sweet home for about 3 years and I absolutely ENJOY TESTING & reviewing new sex toys. In my reviews, I’ll always tell you what I think, and how it feels, and I don’t sugarcoat anything. Learn more.

  • Robert Thomas is a sexologist, researcher, and writer who loves to explore and investigate everything that is related to bedroom action. He strives to improve couples' sex life by challenging the advice given in research papers, books, magazines, and on the internet in general. Robert loves to write about sex, BDSM, as well as tips & tricks on how couples can introduce new sex toys to their relationship. He has been proudly featured in Healthline, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Self, AskMen, MelMagazine, Kinkly, Jack&Jill Adult, and in many other publications. Learn more. LinkedIn