The Top 6 Best Strap On Dildos: New Waves Of Shared Pleasure

You haven’t really explored the world of sex toys if you haven’t yet discovered strap-on dildos. With a single thrust, these dildos can change your sex life. 

Thanks to a strap-on dong, you don’t need a dick to penetrate your loved one vaginally or anally. And even if you do have a penis, I’m pretty sure you or your partner will appreciate newer adventures in your collection or a much-needed CPR if your sex life is on its deathbed. 

That’s one of the many reasons people use strap-on dildos. In this article, I’ll discuss some of the best strap-on dildos I’ve used with my partner for the past 5 years.

This article is co-written by Cathy who is our in-house dildo expert.

SPOILER ALERT: The Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap-On Dildo is my favorite. And if it didn’t exist, I’d probably opt for the Lovehoney Fun Double Penetration Strap-On as my second favorite. 

Overview of the Best Strap-On Dildos

Now let’s discuss strap-on dildos in general. 

What Are Strap-On Dildos?

A strap-on dildo kit comes with an underwear-style harness, a couple of inches-long dildo included, and some lube. It’s made for the internal stimulation of one partner while the wearer penetrates.

The harnesses can allow one or two dildos and a person’s penis slipped through the hole.

It gives both partners an equal chance to play the ‘boss’ and have their way with each other, which couples do to experiment with their sex life.

The strap-on dildos can also be used for some double penetration or in cases where erectile dysfunction comes into play. With the strap-on, you can use two dildos, penetrate two holes, and orgasm like never before.

Without any further ado, we present the top 6 best strap-on dildos money can buy!

Top 6 Best Strap-Ons: Everyone Gets A Turn

The following are some of the best strap-on dildos my partner and I have experimented with. 

1. Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap On Harness Kit Dildo | Best Overall 

No one knows strap-on harnesses better than Lovehoney, one of the best sex toy stores on the internet. Their new and soft strap-on dildo kit is one sex toy you won’t be able to imagine your night without. With an impressive insertable length of 6 inches, the dildo is one everyone wants to ride once in a while, myself included.

With an underwear-style adjustable harness, sleek and curved dildo, and a pocket for bullet vibrators, it’s one of the best sex toys the British sex toy manufacturer can offer. Whoever decides to wear the harness will definitely have exhilarating pleasure. 

The dildo is also curved, made to reach even the deepest of G-spots and P-spots.

That’s exactly why I gave it a 4.8 out of 5 rating for its’ Ability to induce orgasms.’ Curved penises and dildos are always a win for me, and when you add a bullet vibrator into the equation, just shut up and take my money! 

And I know I’m not the only one tripping for this bad boy from the strap-on clan of dildos. No wonder it has over 290 reviews on Lovehoney, the highest in this list. 

This toy ticks all the right boxes, from the ease of use, quality, orgasm, design, and value; the manufacturer understood the assignment, and that’s why it’s our overall best strap-ob dildo.

The machine-washable harness can be adjusted to a waist of 28 to 65 inches, so don’t worry about it getting loose. In addition, the unisex dildo is made from silky silicone, so you can have the most lifelike experience. 

This makes it a fantastic experimental experience for long-term couples, and the kit is the best option on our list.

The Advanced Unisex can be used for pegging, anal play, vaginal or double penetration, and pleasuring both sexes. I call it the jack of all trades.

The satisfactory kit comes with 3 interchangeable O-rings in various sizes. Also, you have an additional O-ring for every dildo in your collection. Because the toy is made from silicone, one of the safest sex toy materials, don’t forget to wash it thoroughly after and before every use. 

If you’re unsure where to begin cleaning the dong, I’ve covered everything you need to know in this article

And to pump up the fun, splash some of your favorite water-based lube.

With the Advanced Unisex, you are one kit pleasure away from Pleasuretown.

TESTIMONIAL: “One thing I love about this kit is that it comes with everything I need to spice up my bedroom life. And the fact that it’s unisex, meaning my wife and I can take turns to satisfy each other.”

  • Deon L, on Lovehoney

Product Specifications:

  • Brand: Lovehoney
  • Material: Silicone
  • Harness Size: 28-65 inches
  • Length: 7 inches
  • Circumference: 4.75 inches
  • Price: $45 

Reasons to Buy

  • This is one of the best unisex strap-on dildos you’ll ever come across anywhere on the internet.
  • It has great reviews on Lovehoney (290+), meaning it’s been tried and tested to be among the best bedroom companion you need to spice up your sex life.
  • I love the fact that you can use it for pegging, vaginal, anal, and even double penetration for the ultimate orgasm.

Reasons Not to Buy

  • The vibrator pocket is a great addition, but I feel like a built-in vibrator would have been way better. The manufacturer probably wanted to give users more freedom to select their favorite vibrator. 

2. Lovehoney Double Fun Double Penetration Strap On | Best for Beginners 

If you’re looking for sexy ways to satisfy your girl on both ends, try the menacing Lovehoney Double Penetration Strap-On. This is the best way to make both ends meet in the bedroom, literally.

This gorgeous black boy acts as an additional shaft to your penis and can help you penetrate anally and vaginally simultaneously.

The bullet vibrations of the complimentary twin bullet vibrators cause shivers over your and your partner’s skin, and you can select from 7 different modes and 5 patterns. Each vibration speed is more intense than the previous, making up for electrifying orgasms, which explains the 4.6 out of 5 rating for its’ Ability to Induce Orgasms’.

There is also an additional clitoral stimulator to tickle your lady while you penetrate anally. Unlike the Lovehoney Advanced harness, this one just comes with the straps and a smaller dildo.

There’s something for the men as well. The cock and ball rings come with every similar wearable penetrator and can be used to prolong the experience and intensify the orgasm. The wearable dark shaft is 5.5 inches making it a smaller toy and a great option even for newbies. It’s also quite sleek and curved, made specifically to enter the anal entrance the easy way.

The dildo is silicone-based, which makes it a favorite for anal play and a safe sex toy in general. Due to its material, anal play lovers adore the silicone strap-on. This way, the hidden desire to be penetrated in two holes can be fulfilled with your loved one.

TESTIMONIAL: “My wife and I wanted to try something different in the sex toy world. We thought about exploring strap-on dildos and getting into anal play, and this was the perfect buy! It’s small enough to not cause discomfort during play but also big enough to do the job.” – Tim K, on Lovehoney

Product Specifications:

  • Brand: Lovehoney
  • Material: Silicone
  • Length: 7.5 (5.5 insertable)
  • Power Type: Batteries
  • Price: $36.99

Reasons to Buy 

  • The 5.5 inches of insertable length and a 4.0 circumference makes it a great beginner-friendly strapon-dildo.
  • The phallus also feels soft, which helps prevent soreness after vaginal or anal play.
  • Comes with varying vibration speeds and patterns, guaranteeing powerful orgasms when used right.

Reasons Not to Buy

  • If you love your adult toys huge, then you’ll probably not appreciate this toy’s size. Understandably, though, it’s built with beginners in mind. 

3. Lovehoney Perfect Partner Hollow Strap On | Best Vibrating Strap-On 

If you’re into head-spinning vibrations, all-body tingles, and overall incredible climaxing, search no further than the Lovehoney Hollow Strap on. This hollow strap-on comes with a wearable harness to fit a waist of any size. Due to its elasticity, the harness allows plenty of room for remote-controlled vibrators. The Hollow Strap-On has a whopping 8-inch dildo, perfect for experienced pegging and anal play.

I feel like a superhuman whenever I hop into bed wearing this vibrating strap-on, and my girlfriend loves it! The best part of it is I don’t have to worry about premature ejaculation — the dong is an excellent cover-up. 

The wired controller is the cherry on top of the kit because couples can control each other’s vibrations with it. There are 3 different speeds and over 7 vibrating patterns. This makes for an exhilarating game involving a lot of slow-building orgasms, not not as intense as the Lovehoney Double Fun Double Penetration Strap Onwhich comes with 7 different vibrating modes but fewer patterns(3). 

Like many sex toys, this one requires a whole lot of lube for easy insertion. However, unlike the Lovehoney Double Penetration strap on, this one comes with one more powerful punch with 8 whole insertable inches! It also has a circumference of over 6 inches, making it one of the girthiest on our list.

I also love that it’s pretty affordable, earning a 4.8 rating out of 5 for Affordability in our dildo rating system

TESTIMONIAL: “I just love how realistic this monster dildo looks. The thick, veiny shaft and intense vibrations are just what I need to give my girlfriend incredible leg-shaking and toe-curling orgasms. Great job with this one, Lovehoney! Just what I needed to save my relationship.”

Bring this budget-friendly strap-on to your next romantic night and await wonders to be unleashed!

Product Specifications:

  • Brand: LoveHoney
  • Material: PVC
  • Length: 8 inches
  • Circumference: 6.25 inches
  • Vibration Speed: 3 speeds, 7 patterns
  • Power Type: Batteries
  • Price: $34.99

Reasons to Buy

  • This is the best strap-on dildo if you enjoy multi-patterned vibrations while thrusting. It comes with 7 different vibrating patterns!
  • The monster phallus from Lovehoney also comes with a generous length and girth, perfect for individuals who love their holes filled to the brim.
  • Needless to say, it’s also affordable, which is quite surprising despite its incredible features.

Reasons Not to Buy

  • Because of its incredible size, you may want to steer away from this toy for the time being and practice with a smaller alternative, such as the Lovehoney Double Fun Double Penetration Strap On, if you’re a beginner. Then, once you’ve gained some experience, you can always take your game a notch higher with this bad boy. 

4. Fetish Fantasy Hollow Strap On Dildo | Best Hollow Strap-On Dildo

Get ready to bow down to the king of hollow strap ons! The new Fetish Fantasy Hollow is a dark beauty you want caressing you deep into the night. If you want nothing but pleasure for both you and your partner, include this dark as night hollow dildo with its 8 inches of penetrable glory just like its brother the Lovehoney Perfect Partner Hollow Strap On

With a large circumference and enormous length, it makes for a fantastic toy for experienced lovers. Fit with a veiny shaft and glossy covering, the toy can leave anyone gasping for air.

The strap-on dildo is also removable, which means you can enjoy it without the faux leather harness, which is suitable for any body type. With a range between 16 and a 56-inch, almost everyone can put it on.

Unlike the Advanced Unisex, the Fetish Fantasy has a recognizably smaller harness, limited to people with certain body types. The hollow shaft can also be worn over the penis to prolong orgasms and intensify erections.

Even though the toy is created from soft plastic, it is highly flexible and soft while penetrating.

Nevertheless, ordering a size up is a good idea, and using a lot of water-based lube for some slippery fun is advisable too.

TESTIMONIAL: “My penis is smaller than the average size, and I was looking for something to make me feel more manly and give my woman the orgasms she’s been yearning for. Now I have 8 more inches to work with without ever needing surgery! For less than $100, that’s a steal.”

Product Specifications:

  • Brand: Fetish Fantasy
  • Material: Soft Plastic
  • Length: 8 inches
  • Circumference: 7 inches
  • Features: Hollow
  • Price: $79.99

Reasons to Buy

  • Generous length and girth have always been good reasons to buy a dildo, especially if you’re more experienced in the game.
  • Despite the length and girth, it still feels soft, perfect for experiencing orgasms without soreness. 
  • It feels very realistic thanks to the perfectly-angled curved and veiny shaft.

Reasons Not to Buy

  • You may want to stay away from this hollow strap-on dildo if you’re allergic to latex. Instead, the Lovehoney Perfect Partner Hollow Strap On is a better latex-free option if you’re still looking for similar specifications. 
  • It’s also a little bit more expensive than other toys I’ve reviewed so far, which explains the 3.5 rating out of 5 for Affordability. 

5. Tracey Cox Superstar Strap-On Kit | Best Suction Cup Strapon-On

Presenting the pegging kit to fulfill all dirty dreams, the Tracey Cox Supersex Strap-on Kit will leave you breathless after a single try. The kit includes two gigantic dildos, a stylish harness, a bullet vibe, and 3 o-rings. The three rings come in different sizes depending on how varied and extensive your dildo collection is and its variety.

The dildos are made from high-quality medical silicone, making them yummy toys for some anal play. Silicone is known to make things twice as bounceable, especially for ladies.

They also come with suction cups, which means you can slap these dildos on the floor, in the shower, or wherever and hold on to your pillow for dear support.

Here are more ideas on how and where to mount your suction cup dildo. 

The harness can be cleaned in a washing machine and applied to all types of hips, wide or tight. There is also a hollow 2-inch pocket in the harness, where girls can store their bullet vibrator for clitoral stimulation during pegging play.

Like the Fetish Fantasy Hollow Strap, the Tracey Cox kit is not the most affordable; it has a 3.8 rating out of 5 for Affordability. But that also means you’ll get great value when investing in this suction cup strap-on dildo. 

What’s more, you get your own personal bullet vibrator with 7 functions and batteries with it. It is perfect for some experimentation in the bedroom, and your girl will be thrilled you want to try pegging!

TESTIMONIALS: “My wife and I had a rough time figuring out how she wore the strap-on, but once we got that part figured out, we had a great time with it. It is easy to wear than most strap-ons we’ve used and does exactly what it says. One more thing: looks sexy.”

Product Specifications:

  • Brand: Tracey Cox
  • Material: Silicone
  • Circumference: 4.5 inches
  • Length: 6 inches
  • Power Type: Batteries
  • Price: $80

Reasons to Buy

  • The silicone material makes it a safe toy for all kinds of penetration
  • The suction cup design allows hand-free use, which comes in handy when you’re away from your partner.
  • You can use the detachable O-ring with various sex toys, adding even more pleasure to the bedroom.

Reasons Not to Buy

  • Because it’s battery-powered, you’ll need to invest in some durable batteries, which can be an extra expense in the long term. But that doesn’t seem to be a problem for most people, given that incredible orgasms come at a price. To put things into perspective, this toy has over 150 reviews on Lovehoney (mostly positive), the second-highest number of reviews on our list so far. 

6. Double Penetrator Cock Ring Strap On | The Most Affordable Strap-On Dildo 

If you want to surprise your girlfriend with a clever and affordable gift, choose the cherry-colored Double Penetrator Cock Ring Strap-On. This deliciously-looking dildo is made from flexible soft plastic and a sleek 5.5. inch shaft

The 4.9 rating out of 5 for Affordability makes it a sexy gift idea if you’re on a budget. It’s also worth noting that the Double Penetrator almost goes neck-to-neck in terms of pricing with the Lovehoney Perfect Partner, but I noticed that this toy’s price has been more constant than the Perfect Partner, hence the high rating for Affordability. 

The affordable strap-on dildo basically resembles a red candy cone that just invites to be sucked or played with.

Besides the red shaft, the strapless strap comes with a vibrating cock ring. These rings will send shivers down your penis and prolong your erection, contributing to an unforgettable night with your partner. 

The shaft is sleek, making it the perfect toy for newbie anal players. In addition, the lack of texture makes it an easy slip and an even greater arousal provocation.

Unlike the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap On, this one is definitely smaller, with only 6 inches of insertable length. Don’t forget to lube up before entering the anus to avoid any additional inconveniences.

TESTIMONIAL: “My wife and I opened it and used it that night for the very first time. I must admit that we were both nervous the first time, but we both enjoyed it. I loved that it would vibrate on my shaft and her clit at the same time. Since then, it never leaves our bedside table!”

Product Specifications:

  • Brand: Double Penetrator
  • Material: Soft Plastic
  • Length: 5.5 inches
  • Circumference: 5 inches
  • Power Type: rechargeable
  • Price: $34.99

Reasons to Buy

  • First of all, this is the most affordable strap-on dildo on our list, and the best part is that it still maintains great quality.
  • I also love the fact that it’s rechargeable, meaning you won’t have to worry about replacing the battery mid-session.
  • And as the name suggests, double penetration leads to double pleasure. 

Reasons Not to Buy

  • The 5-inch insertable length is ideal for beginners but may not be the best choice if you’re more experienced with dildos. 

Strap On Dildos: Buyer’s Guide

If you ask any sex educator if strap-on sex is pleasurable, they will definitely agree. There are pleasure centers that can be awakened during double penetration, so it’s advisable to try it at least once. When researching websites that sell sex toys or similar content, you need to consider the following factors.

Material

Most strap-on dildos come in various textured materials, all catering toward sexual pleasure. Naturally, the softer the fabric feels to the genitals, the more authentic it will feel.

Strap-on dildos are usually made of PVC, silicone, soft plastic, and leather harnesses. Soft plastic enables smooth penetration, while silicone presents the most lifelike sensation. Whichever you choose should be easy to clean and rinse.

Cleaning and Maintenance

All sex toys require cleaning and maintenance after and before every use, including regular soap and water washing around corners and curves and a potent disinfectant to be extra sure. To protect yourself from STDs, an everyday wash-up is a must-do!

Cost

A usual strap-on kit, with a harness included, will cost you at least $39.99 to only $79.99 if you shop at credible pages. You can also subscribe to official websites and receive updates on new toys. Make sure to read through detailed reviews that comment on these websites and indulge in conversation. Trust official websites.

Strap-On Dildos Conclusion

Regardless of what you’ll purchase, one thing should always come first. It needs to reflect your own individual likes. Only through exploring your sexuality and turn-on dildo sex positions can you achieve absolute satisfaction. 

The good thing about these toys is that they’re designed to meet your unique needs, not just sexual ones. For instance, if you’re looking for an affordable strap-on phallus, the Double Penetrator Cock Ring Strap On is what you need.

The Tracey Cox Superstar Strap On Kit might be a little bit more expensive, but it allows for hands-free use, making it useful even during solo play.

The Fetish Fantasy Hollow Strap On Dildo is a great option if you suffer from erectile dysfunction or premature ejaculation.

And if you don’t mind intense vibrations, the Lovehoney Perfect Partner Hollow Strap On is just what you need.

If you want your holes filled simultaneously, the Lovehoney Double Fun Double Penetration Strap On has you covered, literally.

And lastly, if you’re unsure of where to start, but you want something that’ll make you cum as you explore the world of strap-on dongs, opt for the Lovehoney Advanced Unisex Strap On Harness Kit Dildo.

Regardless of your choice, make sure that the strap-on dildo matches your desires and hidden temptations and makes you cum like never before.

Authors

  • Robert Thomas

    Robert Thomas is a sexologist, researcher, and writer who loves to explore and investigate everything that is related to bedroom action. He strives to improve couples' sex life by challenging the advice given in research papers, books, magazines, and on the internet in general. Robert loves to write about sex, BDSM, as well as tips & tricks on how couples can introduce new sex toys to their relationship. He has been proudly featured in Healthline, Bustle, Cosmopolitan, Self, AskMen, MelMagazine, Kinkly, Jack&Jill Adult, and in many other publications. Learn more. LinkedIn

  • Cathy K

    I love all “things” that can be played with, especially sex toys that are curvey and realistic at the same time. Jokes aside, I have great instincts when it comes to picking out a new dildo or vibrator or any other sex toy that can actually make you orgasm. Sextopedia has been my sweet-sweet home for about 3 years and I absolutely ENJOY TESTING & reviewing new sex toys. In my reviews, I’ll always tell you what I think, and how it feels, and I don’t sugarcoat anything. Learn more.

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