11 Ways To Use a Suction Cup Dildo + Best Sex Positions To Try

Quick links: Mounting Vertically | Mounting Horizontally | Horizontal Use Ideas | Vertical Use Ideas | Tips | Surfaces That Won’t Work | Positions To Try | FAQs

Suction cup dildos offer the freedom to cum all you want while keeping your hands busy elsewhere.

But how do you use a suction cup dildo? It’s not difficult at all. 

Mounting a Suction Cup Dildo on a Vertical Surface

If you like getting fucked from behind (doggy style), you’ll appreciate what a suction cup dildo can do. You can mount this phallus on horizontal surfaces, such as your bathroom wall, wardrobe door, washer and dryer, a large mirror, and your bed’s headboard. 

Pros

• Gives you total freedom to use your hands for other activities, such as blow jobs, hand jobs, etc.
• Perfect for individuals with physical disabilities that prevent them from holding dildos while riding.
• Comes with numerous mounting options — you can mount it on almost any smooth and flat surface.
• Offers deeper and better penetration, allowing the toy to hit all the right spots – it is even better when using fantasy dildos for that rough, bumpy, and orgasmic ride. 
• Great for both vaginal, oral, and anal penetration. 

Cons

• Although you won’t need to use your hands, you’ll have to put a lot of effort around your torso when rocking back and forth. After all, good things cum to those who work hard for them. 

Best Suction Cup Dildos For Vertical Surface

Obviously, the best suction cup dildo for vertical mounting depends on your preferences and how you intend to use it.

For instance, the Lifelike Lover Luxe Realistic Multicoloured Silicone Dildo from Lovehoney works best for me because of its curved design, making it easier to hit my G spot with every thrust.

But if you need help thrusting, you can opt for a thrusting dildo vibrator equipped with a suction cup. 

Keep in mind that the G spot is located on the upper vaginal wall. So, when you choose a curved suction cup dildo, ensure it curves downwards (as if pointing to the floor) when you mount it.

“The G-spot is similar in size and shape to a lima bean, located directly behind the pubic bone inside the front wall of the vagina, about two inches on the front wall in from the vagina’s entrance.”

by Dr. Haha Lung, Christopher B. Prowant; Citadel Press, 2012
from Mental Dominance: The Art of Ninja Mind Power

That’s because when you bend over, your vagina turns upside down, meaning the upper vaginal wall will now face downwards.

Mounting a Suction Cup Dildo on a Horizontal Surface

This position works best if you love riding dick. You can mount it on almost every flat and smooth surface. 

Pros

• Easy to mount — it’s more like a plug-and-play kind of toy.
• Guarantees intense penetrations, the perfect ingredient for powerful orgasms.
• Mounts on a wide range of surfaces. (Hang on there; I’ll cover more on this shortly)
• Compatible with many other sex toy accessories and machines, such as saddles and monkey rockers.

Cons

• On the downside, mounting a suction cup dildo on a horizontal surface means you’ll need to use a lot of leg muscles when riding, increasing the risk of muscle cramps. But you shouldn’t be too worried about that — it gets better with time. 

Best Suction Cup Dildos For Horizontal Surface

When mounted horizontally, I like my suction cup dildo long and textured for deeper penetration and that bumpy feeling as it makes love to my inner walls. Anything between 6 to 8 inches is perfect for me.

And I know I’m not alone; the team at Sextopedia conducted a survey between October 2021 and July 2022. The results showed that at least 73% of the 2468 participants settled for dildos measuring between 6 to 7 inches.

Horizontal Surface Suction Cup Dildo Ideas

Now let’s dive deeper into suction cup mounting ideas, beginning with a horizontal surface. 

1. Chair

Remember that one plastic, metal, or wooden chair you don’t like sitting on because it’s ‘too tough’ on your behinds? Well… adding a suction cup dildo to the equation offers a new sitting experience.

Pros 

• This option provides a stable surface to mount and ride a suction cup dildo. Your body weight helps keep the chair firm even during intense rides.
• You can use the chair to support your arms, providing extra comfort as you ride.
• This position allows you to comfortably explore other sexual activities, such as sucking your partner’s dick while riding, watching porn, and so much more.

Cons

• Traditional chairs can be uncomfortable, especially if you have thick thighs. Their edges tend to rub against the highs, creating friction while riding. For best results, consider investing in a sex chair or a standard chair that’s not too wide. 

This position works with almost all suction cup dildos. However, a thrusting and vibrating phallus can spice things up a notch. And since you’ll be half-seated on the chair, moving your torso up and down, the suction cup dildo can do all the heavy lifting for you. 

Riding a suction cup drilldo on a chair is great for both anal and vaginal penetration. You can even add a double-sided dildo with a suction cup base for double pleasure. That said, you’ll still have one more hole to fill (your mouth) if you’d like to add oral sex to the experience. 

2. Desk

You can also mount the dildo on a desk at home or in the office for a quickie. Here are a few important things you need to know about this position.

Pros

• The desk option provides a quick and easy way to experience powerful orgasms anywhere.
• It offers different positions to choose from depending on the desk’s shape and sturdiness. 
• You can also fuck the dildo by sitting on it (cowboy) or bending over (doggy style).

Cons

• This position only works with a firm and sturdy desk.

Unless when using a super stable desk, such as a heavy office desk, this position works well with a standard suction cup dildo. As mentioned earlier, you can also use a double-ended donaldo or a vibrating one for extra pleasure.

To add more fun to the experience, mount the toy on the desk, sit on it, and then eat your partner’s pussy or suck their penis while riding. For this to work, you’ll need to mount the toy on top of the desk but closer to the edges.

Speaking of edges, a sturdy desk allows you to experience anal or vaginal penetration while bending over. While in that position, you can suck your partner’s dick or vagina or be a little bit extra by eating their ass if they bend over closer to your face. 

3. Floor

The floor position is arguably the most popular because it offers sooo many options. You can mount it on your bathroom floor, the kitchen, the living room, or anywhere there’s a smooth, flat floor.

Pros

• As mentioned before, this position gives you unlimited mounting options. Consider mounting the toy on a tile or granite floor for epic results. 
• Floors are everywhere; you only need a suitable surface and a little privacy to enjoy the ride.
• This option is also more stable than a desk or chair; no amount of pounding or riding will move the floor. 

Cons

• Some positions, such as doggy style, won’t work when you mount the toy on the floor.

The only thing you probably won’t like about this position is that it tends to exhaust your knees and thighs, especially if you squat over the dildo. To avoid this, you can fold two clean towels and place them under your knees and legs for extra padding when sitting on the toy. 

4. Toilet Seat

The toilet seat option is also pretty popular. I’ve tried it a couple of times and here’s what I like about it:

Pros

• This option is easy to use — you only need access to a clean toilet to enjoy the ride.
• Most toilet seats are usually stable, making them ideal for intense rides. 
• You’ll also love that this option offers total privacy during steamy sessions. You’ll be fine as long as the bathroom doors are locked. 
• It’s also convenient for a quickie right before a shower.

Cons

• Some toilet seats, especially those made from plastic, are not usually stable enough to support certain suction cup dildos.
• Some toilet seats are not hygienic, especially if you want a quick fuck in a public toilet.

The toilet alternative might not work best for certain suction cup dildos, particularly toilet seat covers made with plastic. Don’t get me wrong; the suction cup will still attach itself to the toilet seat cover, but the grip will likely not be firm enough. 

With the right toilet seat cover, you can use this position for anal and vaginal penetration with two suction cup dildos or a double-headed one. 

5. Bath Edge

If you love a warm bath and aromatherapy, try adding a suction cup dildo into the mix. You’ll thank me later. Here’s why.

Pros

• You can mount almost every suction cup dildo on the edge of a bathtub.
• This alternative offers privacy and discreteness, helping you focus on achieving mind-blowing orgasms in the bathroom.
• The environment is also highly customizable if you wish to create the perfect ambiance for pleasure. For instance, I love lighting up some scented candles and playing sensual background music to set the right mood before the dildo riding action begins. 

Cons

• Dirty bathtubs can spread infections. To avoid this, clean and disinfect the bathtub before mounting the drilldo. 

When looking for the best dildo for bath edge, feel free to explore the many options in the market. Whether you need a small, large, realistic, veined, or vibrating dong, you won’t run out of choices.

That said, keep in mind that glass dildos aren’t the best for use in the bathroom. This is because there is always a high risk of chipping when they fall and hit the tub or floor.

6. Nightstand

Your nightstand isn’t just about creating the perfect ambiance in the bedroom. For example, if the stand has a lockable drawer, you can turn it into a mount for a suction cup dildo and storage for your toys.

Pros

• This alternative offers an easy and accessible way to mount your dong for a quick trip to orgasmville.
• Nightstands can also double up as safe storage for your toys, making them even more accessible when needed.

Cons

• Nightstands are not usually as solid; you’ll likely struggle with keeping them in one position as you ride the dildo.
• Some materials used to create nightstands may not support a suction cup or might not provide a strong grip.

You can use any suction cup dildo for this option, but from my experience, vibrating toys tend to get a little bit loud when in contact with a wooden nightstand, especially those with drawers. To prevent this, ensure the drawers are filled with anything you can think of — the more empty they are, the louder the vibration will be. 

Vertical Surface Suction Cup Dildo Ideas

You’ll love mounting a suction cup dildo on a vertical surface, especially if you enjoy being penetrated while standing or bending over. Let’s discuss different positions worth trying. 

1. Shower Wall

The shower wall position is great if you don’t have a tub in your bathroom or you enjoy penetration while standing on bending.

Pros

• Because most bathroom walls are built with suction cup dildo-friendly materials such as ceramic or glass tile, you won’t run out of space or positions to mount your bad boy.
• In this position, you can also give your partner a hand job, blow job, or even a clit job. 

Cons

• The shower wall position might not be ideal for you if you struggle with joint pain. One Reddit user actually raised the same issue on the forum. 

2. Mirror

Mirrors aren’t just for staring into while applying makeup. Did you know you can actually use your mirror to experience wild orgasms? Suction cup dildos stick pretty well on mirrors, providing the stability you need to ride through the orgasm boulevard.

Pros

• Suction cup dildos stick better on mirrors, keeping the toy in one place while riding. 
• This position works best for both anal, oral, and vaginal sex.
• You’ll also enjoy fantastic views as your straddle the dong.

Cons

• While suction cup dildos are usually compatible with mirrors, not all mirrors are worth riding. For the best experience, you’ll need a larger mirror (not as shown in the above image), which can be expensive. 
• Mirrors are also fragile – you’ll need to ride safely to prevent them from falling over due to the back-and-forth movement, especially if you have a bouncy ass. 

3. Fridge or Washer Door

You can take your naughtiness a notch higher by attaching a suction cup dong onto a fridge or washer door. Here’s what I learned about this alternative.

Pros

• Fridges are much more stable than other options we’ve reviewed so far, such as free-standing mirrors and nightstands. Therefore, you won’t have to worry about the fridge switching positions as you fuck the dildo.
• Washer doors are also convenient, especially if you have a private laundry room. For extra privacy, you can turn on the washer machine as you ride the dong.

Cons

• Some fridge doors might not support suction cup toys. For best results, opt for fridge doors made with stainless steel, glass, and other dildo-friendly materials. 

4. Your Bed’s Headboard

The headboard position is one of the most comfortable if done right. All you need to do is stick the dong to the headboard, back up your booty into the right position, and then insert it into your wall of choice.

Pros

• This style is gentle on the knees, hands, and feet. 
• It also allows anal, vaginal, and oral penetration.
• You can spice things up a little bit more by sucking the toy as your partner fucks you from behind (doggy style). This position is perfect for straight, gay, and lesbian couples; the latter can use a strap-on dildo for woman-to-woman action. 

Cons

• If you have a squeaky bed, you’ll likely receive a noise complaint from your neighbors. 
• Not all headboards support suction cup dildos, so you pretty much have limited options.

5. Door

Certain types of doors can support suction cup dildos. You just need to remember to keep them locked, or you’ll end up flying across the room (or outside) with a dildo in your vagina if someone walks in unexpectedly.

Pros

• With some good privacy (and when locked), doors offer much-needed stability when riding.
• You can also use this position for anal, oral, or vaginal penetration while also giving your partner a hand job.

Cons

• Some door materials don’t support suction cup dildos. 
• Some doors can be noisy, causing distractions from the main action. 

Should I Consider Buying a Dildo Mount?

If you love riding dick or getting dicked while bending over, having a dildo mount comes with endless possibilities and freedom.

If you don’t know where to start in choosing the right dildo mount for you and your toy, I’ve explained everything you need to know in this article. 

Tips to Use Suction Cup Dildo

Because you can mount suction cup dildos on various materials, accessories, or locations, the steps for mounting this toy vary. Here’s a quick look at some popular options. 

When mounting a suction cup dildo on a strap-on harness:

• Push the base of the suction cup through the O ring.
• You can adjust the edges of the suction cup base to ensure it slides through the O ring.
• Alternatively, insert the head of the suction cup dildo through the O ring, and move it to the bottom to support the base. 
• The O ring will rest firmly against the dildo’s base, keeping the toy in position and ready for action. 
• Wrap the harness around your waist, fasten it, and then you are good to go.

When mounting a suction cup dildo horizontally or vertically:

• Look for a smooth and even surface. 
• Clean and disinfect the surface.
• Moisten the interior of the cup for better stickiness but don’t overdo it
• Choose the ideal body position – for example, for vaginal penetration on a horizontal surface, you want the dildo angled upwards. If you opt for a vertical surface, keep the dildo slightly angled downwards for easier access to your G spot.

Remember to clean the dildo when done and then store it properly. 

Which Surfaces Won’t Work?

Suction cup dildos don’t work with any surface. Examples of non-compatible surfaces include:

• Upholstered surfaces, such as certain chairs and headboards.
• Textured surfaces, such as rough and uneven walls.
• Curved surfaces, such as some car dashboards.
• Certain types of plastics.

Best Sex Positions for Suction Cup Dildo

I’ve tried several sex positions with suction cup dildos over the past few years. Here are some of the best (I still use them to this day).

I also discussed the worst dildo sex positions in this article. 

Doggy Style

Who doesn’t like a good fucking from behind? The doggy-style position, when used with a suction cup dildo, offers deep penetrations and unforgettable pleasure. This is because the toy hits all the right places while straddling, including the G spot. 

Cowboy

Arguably the most common position for suction cup dildo lovers, the cowboy guarantees deeper penetration because your body weight controls every move. 

Chair Ride

This position allows the dildo to stand so you can sit. What a gentleman! It works best with wooden or steel chairs; all you’ll need to do is sit on the lubed-up dildo while facing the back of the chair. 

Hold the back of the chair for extra support, and begin the ride to orgasmland. 

Lap Dance

Using a wooden or steel chair, mount the dildo on it, and then sit facing away from the back of the chair. Insert the dildo, sit on it and ride as if giving a lap dance. 

Blow and Bounce

This one is pretty simple; place the toy on a clean, flat surface, and sit on it. Then, begin bouncing on it slowly as you suck your partner’s dick or eat their coochie/ass. You can also use this position while giving your partner a handjob.

Baptism

If you want to enjoy some baptism of orgasm:

1. Mount the suction cup dildo at the edge of a bathtub.
2. Sit facing the toy, spread your legs, and then insert.
3. Use your arms to support yourself as you rock your waist back and forth.

Using a Suction Cup Dildo FAQs

What’s a Suction Cup Dildo?

A suction cup dildo is a type of dildo that comes with a flared base fitted with a suction cup used to stick the toy to certain surfaces.

Can I Use Suction Cup Dildo for Strap-On Sex?

Yes, you can use a strap-on dildo for sex. All you need to do is attach the flared base of the suction cup dildo to the O ring used to attach a strap-on dildo. 

Do I Have to Warm-Up Before Use?

Yes, it’s really important that you warm up before using a dildo (or having sex in general). Warming up keeps you in the mood and helps prepare your sexual parts for penetration by relaxing your muscles. 

Are Suction Cup Dildos Safe?

Yes, suction cup dildos are safe to use as long as they are made from body-safe materials, and you’ve been cleaning and storing them properly.

Which Lube Should I Use?

Water-based lube is perfect for riding a suction cup dildo. Here’s a comprehensive guide on picking the best lube for sex toys. 

Can You Have a Threesome Using a Suction Cup Dildo?

Yes, you can have a threesome. But you’ll need to be a little bit creative. Let’s briefly discuss different possible scenarios: 

Two women, one man: One woman rides the suction cup dildo while giving the second woman a clit job as she (the second woman) sucks the man’s dick.

Two men, one woman: The woman rides the dildo while sucking one man’s dick and giving the other a hand job. There’s no better way to learn the art of multitasking than this!

All three men: One man rides the dildo while sucking the second man’s dick while giving the other a hand job. 

All three women: You’ll need two dildos for this to work. One woman rides the first suction cup dildo while giving the second woman a clit job and uses a second dildo to fuck the third woman. 

Any other creative ideas? Feel free to share with us in the comment sections below! 

And that, ladies and gentlemen, is how to use a suction cup dildo. I’ve been your sex toy expert, Cathy K. 

Until next time, happy fucking!